How To Not Care About Boyfriends Past. If you cant see a satisfying ending by exploring your past seal the doors of your past and throw the keys. Take your SO for their words and their actions now and make your assumptions and.
Pause and consider that for a moment. Its a great part of the passionate stage at the start of a relationship during which the lovers who feel like theyre the only ones in the world to love so intently want to start again with a clean slate explains psychiatrist and relationship counsellor Jacques-Antoine Malarewicz. If you have trouble coming to terms with your partners past or managing your feelings an individual or couples counselor can help.
They can offer a fresh perspective on your relationship and if necessary address broader trust issues.
You need to put your foot down and tell him that you love him but he needs to get over it because that was the past and that he isnt second to anyone. Just make sure youre clear about why. If not Gray says its time to speak up. Believe it or not your feelings have much more to do with you than with your partner.